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Relationship experts say one of the most dangerous beliefs about marriage is that you're supposed to make your spouse happy

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A bad piece of relationship advice is that you're supposed to make your spouse happy, experts say.
Instead, you should be a complete person - happy and healthy - on your own.
Regardless of whether you're currently in a relationship, it's important to work on your self-development.
I recently asked a series of relationship experts to share some relationship aphorisms that, despite being acknowledged as obvious wisdom, are simply not true.
Hal Runkel's answer stood out. The idea that "you're supposed to meet each other's needs and make each other happy," he said, is "BS." See...
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